World Family Policy Center Newsletter

*News relative to protecting the family worldwide*

 

Volume 7 Issue 145 - March 29, 2007

 

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Quote of the Day:  “The family meal is a formality that cultivates

in us... a capacity for sharing, generosity, thoughtfulness, a talent

for civilized conversation.”                                                       

                                                —Francine Du Plessix Gray, author       

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Today’s Contents:                 

 

A. Featured Scholar: Craig H. Hart                                                                                           

B. Featured News Articles

          1. A new cause at Harvard: Opposing casual sex

          2.  Coach Dungy Defends Family Values

3. Episcopalians Reject Conciliation Proposal: Denomination refuses to           back down from support of homosexuality

          4. Polish Demonstrators March to Demand Complete Abortion Ban

              Related Article: Mississippi Passes What-If Abortion Bill

              Related Article: Abortion ultrasound-viewing advances in S.C.

              Related Article: The Lost Girls: Sex-selective abortions

 

C. Coming Events

 

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FEATURED SCHOLAR

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Craig H. Hart, Professor of Marriage, Family, and Human Development, School of Family Life, Brigham Young University.

 

Why Are Parents Important? Linking Parenting to Childhood Social Skills in Australia, China, Japan, Russia, and the United States.

 

Recent research findings suggest that children’s success or failure in life can often be traced to childhood social skill development, and that parents can provide the foundation for how well children adjust to their peer groups in ways that no one else can (Hart, Newell, & Olsen, 2003: Ruben, Bukowski & Parker 2006).  Despite scientific evidence supporting these claims, some scholars argue that parents are only minimally essential for children’s development (Harris, 2002: Rowe, 2002: Silverstein & Auerback, 1999).  In this view, fathers and mothers are thought to be interchangeable, and the presence of any caring adult is adequate for optimal human development.  This thinking runs contrary to long-standing and successful cultural practices that have promoted stable, caring family units in which children are nurtured and protected by a mother and a father.  The purpose of this chapter is to confront the minimalist view of parenting by countering some of the criticisms of parenting research and presenting recent findings that illustrate why parents are important in diverse cultural contexts.  Cross-cultural findings stem from research we have conducted in Australia, China, Japan, Russia, and the Untied States.  These studies illustrate important linkages between maternal and paternal parenting skills (or the lack thereof) and young children’s adaptive and maladaptive peer group behavior.  Complementary features of maternal and paternal parent-child interaction styles as associated with child peer group behavior will also be emphasized later in this chapter.

 

(This chapter can be found in the book The Family in the New Millennium, Volume 1, p. 227, Praeger Perspectives. Westport, Connecticut, and London, 2007)

 

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FEATURED NEWS ARTICLES

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1. A new cause at Harvard: Opposing casual sex

Campus group urges abstinence, saying too many act mindlessly

 

By Jesse Harlan Alderman

Houston Chronicle

March 22, 2007

 

CAMBRIDGE, MASS. — Sometime between the founding of a student-run porn magazine and the day the campus health center advertised "Free Lube," Harvard University seniors Sarah Kinsella and Justin Murray decided to fight back against what they see as too much mindless sex at the Ivy League school.

 

They founded a student group called True Love Revolution to promote abstinence on campus. The group was created earlier this school year, has more than 90 members on its Facebook.com page and drew about half that many to an ice cream social.

 

Harvard treats sex — or "hooking up" — so casually that "sometimes I wonder if sex is even a remotely serious thing," said Kinsella, who is dating Murray.

 

Other schools around the country have small groups devoted to abstinence. On most campuses, they are religious organizations. Princeton and the Massachusetts Institute of Technology have Anscombe Societies, secular organizations named after an English philosopher and Roman Catholic. True Love Revolution is secular as well.

 

Some feminists, in particular, have criticized True Love Revolution's message.

 

Harvard student Rebecca Singh said she was offended by a valentine the group sent to the dormitory mailboxes of all freshmen. It read: "Why wait? Because you're worth it."

 

"I think they thought that we might not be 'ruined' yet," Singh said. "It's a symptom of that culture we have that values a woman on her purity. It's a relic."

 

Others on campus have mocked the group. Murray said his friends take pleasure in loudly, and graphically, discussing their sex lives just to taunt him.

 

"On campus there is such a strong attitude of pluralism and acceptance, but then it doesn't extend to this," Kinsella said.

 

In the student paper, The Harvard Crimson, columnist Jessica C. Coggins praised the group's low-key approach and scolded Harvard students for their "laughter at the virgin." She said students on the campus, which has 6,700 undergraduates, should "find a different confidence booster than making fun of celibate peers."

 

To read entire article:

http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/headline/nation/4654642.html

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2.  Coach Dungy Defends Family Values

by Steve Jordahl,

Family News in Focus

March 21, 2007

 

“We’re not trying to downgrade anyone else, hate anyone else,” he tells supporters of an Indiana marriage amendment.

 

Coach Tony Dungy of the Indianapolis Colts spoke strongly Tuesday night in favor of traditional marriage. Family advocates applauded his statement, homosexual groups expressed disappointment and the National Football League has remained silent.

Dungy made his remarks after receiving a Friend of the Family award from the Indiana Family Institute (IFI).

 

“We’re not trying to downgrade anyone else, hate anyone else, but we’re trying to promote the family, family values the Lord’s way,” Dungy said.

 

IFI President Curt Smith was pleased.

 

“Coach Dungy said, ‘I’m with God and I believe IFI has taken the biblical, godly position on marriage and so I’m pleased to stand with it.’”

 

The Indiana Legislature is considering language defining marriage as between one man and one woman. Smith said Dungy’s appearance was not timed to coincide with legislative action.

 

Dr. James Dobson, founder and chairman of Focus on the Family Action, said Dungy “is a good and brave man. To defend God’s truth so simply and strongly on what marriage ought to mean is to invite a blitz of hateful attacks from homosexual activists and others on the Left.”

 

Cyd Zeigler of Outsports.com, a pro-gay group, didn’t criticize Dungy for speaking out, but he insists that Dungy has created a “hostile” work environment in the Colts organization.

 

“I’m afraid that he would not allow a gay player on his team because he did not follow the Lord’s way.”

 

Smith dismissed that thinking.

 

“It’s crazy,” he said, “to think that when someone takes a biblical position on a public-policy question, that it creates any kind of a hostile workforce at all.”

 

To read entire article:

http://www.citizenlink.org/CLtopstories/A000004178.cfm

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3. Episcopalians Reject Conciliation Proposal: Denomination refuses to back down from support of homosexuality.

CitizenLink

March 23, 2007

 

The Episcopal Church has rejected a demand from the worldwide Anglican Communion that they provide conservative leaders for parishes that disagree with the U.S. church's liberal stance on homosexuality.

 

Episcopal priest Don Armstrong of Colorado Springs told Family News in Focus a denominational split is inevitable.

 

"The national leadership and the House of Bishops just have no more patience for classic Christianity," Armstrong said, "and are determined to drive it out sooner rather than later."

 

Conservative parishes are feeling the heat from the Episcopal Church. The Rev. Geoff Chapman of St. Stephens Parish in Sewickley, Pa., said there is a strain on their finances, their facilities and their ability to call ministers of their own choosing.

 

"We do feel the pressure," Chapman said. "They say they're not trying to force us out, but their actions speak a different kind of attitude towards us."

 

To read entire article:

http://www.citizenlink.org/CLNews/A000004193.cfm

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4. Polish Demonstrators March to Demand Complete Abortion Ban

FoxNews

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

 

WARSAW, Poland —  Thousands of Poles took to Warsaw's streets Wednesday to demand a complete ban on abortion, including in cases of rape or incest.

 

Two separate marches merged into a demonstration of 4,000 people in front of parliament, where lawmakers were debating amending the constitution to tighten Poland's anti-abortion law, already among the most restrictive in the EU.

 

"I am for life," said Miroslawa Kledzinska, 64. "God gives life and only he has the right to take life away."

 

Poland's abortion law allows termination of a pregnancy until the 12th week if the mother's life is in danger, the fetus is irreparably damaged or the pregnancy is the result of rape or incest.

 

President Lech Kaczynski has put forward one of three separate proposals to amend the constitution to prohibit abortion completely.

 

However, none has a chance of being adopted while the main opposition Civic Platform party remains opposed. A two-thirds majority is needed in the 460-member lower house to change the constitution.

 

To read entire article:

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,262104,00.html

 

Related Article: Mississippi Passes What-If Abortion Bill

Las Vegas Sun

March 22, 2007

 

JACKSON, Miss. (AP) - The governor signed a bill Thursday that would criminalize abortion in the event that the U.S. Supreme Court overturns the 1973 decision that legalized the procedure.

 

The measure, signed by Gov. Haley Barbour, would ban nearly all abortions in the state if the court were to overturn Roe v. Wade. In that event, anyone performing an illegal abortion in Mississippi would face one to 10 years in prison.

 

The bill also tightens consent laws for minors and requires abortion providers to perform a sonogram and give the pregnant woman an opportunity to listen to a fetal heartbeat.

 

The only exceptions to the state ban would be in cases of rape or if the pregnancy threatened the woman's life. The bill has no exception for pregnancies caused by incest.

 

Proponents of the bill say the ultimate goal is to one day challenge Roe v. Wade. Anti-abortion activists and some lawmakers believe that with the recent appointments of new, conservative justices on the U.S. Supreme Court, Roe v. Wade could be overturned.

 

To read entire article: http://www.lasvegassun.com/sunbin/stories/nat-gen/2007/mar/22/032207270.html

 

Related Article: Abortion ultrasound-viewing advances in S.C.

MSNBC

March 22, 2007

 

COLUMBIA, S.C. - With calls of emotional blackmail from opponents, a measure requiring women seeking abortions to first review ultrasound images of their fetuses advanced Wednesday in the South Carolina Legislature.

 

The legislation, supported by Republican Gov. Mark Sanford, passed 91-23 after lawmakers defeated amendments exempting rape or incest. The House must approve the bill again in a routine vote before it goes to the Senate, where its sponsor expects it to pass with those exemptions.

 

Some states make ultrasound images available to women before an abortion, but South Carolina would be alone in requiring women to view the pictures.

 

Critics consider the proposal a tool to intimidate women who already have made an agonizing decision.

 

"You love them in the womb, but once they get here, it's a different story," said Rep. Gilda Cobb-Hunter, a Democrat and a social worker. "You're sitting here passing judgment? Who gave you the right?"

 

Proponents hope women will change their minds after seeing an ultrasound.

 

Rep. Alan Clemmons, choking back tears as he talked about his two adopted children, recalled a prayer given by his 11-year-old daughter.

 

"She thanked her God, her father in heaven for her birth mother for loving her enough to give her life," said Clemmons, a Republican. "I thank my God for those young mothers who chose to give them life."

 

The bill’s sponsor, Rep. Greg Delleney, a Republican, said the measure would save lives and a lifetime of regret for some women.

 

To read entire article:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17741934/

 

Related Article: The Lost Girls: Sex-selective abortions

by Douglas A. Sylva

Weekly Standard

March 21, 2007

 

It is a wonderful case of man-bites-dog, but don't expect to see this headline in any newspaper: "Bush administration's efforts to protect women through United Nations action thwarted by European Union."

 

Yet that is exactly what happened at the recently concluded Commission on the Status of Women, where the United States' intention to help women (in this case, girls) ran afoul of dominant feminist orthodoxy. The Bush administration introduced a resolution condemning the killing of girls, because they are girls. Such acts include old-fashioned infanticide, the kind of cultural practice the British tried to stamp out in the bygone days of colonial India, as well as the evermore popular use of modern sonogram technology in order to identify and eliminate girls before they are born--what is called sex-selective abortion.

 

And this is where the United States met the opposition of the European Union and its allies: abortion-on-demand orthodoxy seems to mean women's total freedom to choose, even if that choice eliminates the next generation of women, for the very reason that they are women.

 

The Bush administration's concern about infanticide and sex-selective abortion is not exaggerated; although numbers are difficult to establish, most demographers believe that millions of girls are now killed in this manner every year. The British medical journal Lancet recently surmised that there were perhaps 100 million "missing" girls in the world, girls not allowed to grow into women. China is the largest offender; in many regions, some as large and as highly populated as average-sized countries, there are now 130 boys born for every 100 girls (the normal ratio is 104 boys to 100 girls). Beyond the individual injustices involved, this creates a potential demographic calamity. . . .

 

India is the second largest offender, proving that the problem transcends any particular culture. In fact, the practice of sex-selective abortion is spreading throughout nearly every region on earth. There are four cultural factors that must be present for sex-selective abortion to arise: a traditional preference for sons, reduced fertility and family size, availability of sonogram technology, and cultural acceptance of abortion. It is these four factors, and the resulting sex-imbalance now so apparent in countless maternity wards, playgrounds and classrooms, that link such disparate nations as Libya and Luxembourg, Egypt and El Salvador.

 

To read entire article:

http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/013/415gcfae.asp

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COMING EVENTS

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WORLD CONGRESS OF FAMILIES IV

Warsaw, Poland - May 11-13, 2007

 

Meeting in Rockford, Illinois (October 23-25, 2005), a planning committee of the World Congress of Families chose Warsaw, Poland as the site of the 4th World Congress. The Warsaw Congress will be held May 11-13, 2007 in the Palace of Culture and Science.

 

The Polish Federation of Pro-Life Movements, an organization with over 130 affiliates throughout the nation, will serve as the local host for WCF IV.

 

The Congress theme will be “The Natural Family: Springtime for Europe and the World.”  Sub-themes will include: 

          1. We Will Renew Cultures of Marriage

          2. We Will Celebrate More Babies and Larger Families

          3. We Will Nurture Free, Vital, and Productive Homes.

 

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Note: The Featured Articles excerpts are highlights of current events and

do not necessarily represent the views of the World Family Policy Center

or Brigham Young University.

 

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